It's hard to be away from such a keen daddy on Father's Day, but we Skyped first thing this morning to wish him well and tell him where we'd hidden his present, this Bill Murray t-shirt.
Saturday, June 15, 2013
When we come back to Florida, it's always tempting to fill the days with exploration, trips, adventures, and new experiences. That can be a lot of fun, and this blog is full of pictures and stories from such travels--Central Florida has them aplenty. But it's also fun to simply be at home here, to play with the toys my younger sister and I, and my now 16-year-old nephew, played with, to go swimming and watch Spongebob and pet animals and go in the front yard to look at bugs.
Daddy Honey talks about being at his grandparents' home, which the 34 grandkids call "1911" after the address. What he remembers is not using it as a base for sightseeing, but rather, as a special, beloved, quirky, comfortable, life-filled place to be. It was the time he spent there thinking, playing, getting to know and feeling loved by his grandparents, climbing trees with cousins, eating popcorn and drinking Dr. Pepper, and learning by experience where he came from that made 1911 so wonderful to him, and the others. That's a sustaining memory. It's maybe odd to think that we have relationships with places, but of course we do. And our relaionships with some places, especially homes, are every bit as worthy of cultivation as those with any park, art museum, science center, or other area attraction.
1980's and 1990's Legos.
Pet sitting my sister's Chihuahua and testing the limits of inter-species tolerance. This dog is rather cat-like, and our rabbit is rather dog-like, so the sum of their personalities was more significant than their genetic predisposition to a predator-prey relationship.
The Stink Lily has emerged! Latin name, no surprise: Amorphophallus paeoniifolius. Other pseudonyms are Corpse Flower and Carrion Flower. Appeared one day out of the blue about ten years ago, and comes up almost every year, but hasn't ever bloomed its notorious bloom.
2 1/2 hours of our evening, constructing the Lego Harry Potter castle. The other side, which folds out, shows a very intricate inside.This was possible because Fox the whole while pretended to run a junkyard and would fetch us the pieces we needed from his pile.
Fox at the pincushion again. Best toy in the house.
Friday, June 14, 2013
Woody was ecstatic in the most literal sense of the word--consumed by a frenzy of delight--for nearly the whole show. Knights, steeds, flags, swords, lances, maces, morning stars, shields, and axes--in action--feet from us. (If you made a soup of my boys' all-time favorite things to play, the main ingredients would be in that last sentence.) Also, a medieval village of houses, workshops, and displays, including devices of torture that, understandably, spooked Fox a little bit.
But the part Woody liked best was the cheering for the knight in whose color section we sat, and the corresponding booing of the knight on the opposite side. He wanted our whole table to be pumped up, and would coach us on things to say and ways to make big noise. His uncles, both of whom have two daughters each who tend to be more reserved in public, got a big kick out of Woody's overwhelming display of happy dudeness.
With a discount coupon that my niece got at school last week (a perk of living in the world's most popular tourist destination), it was a hundred dollars total for the three tickets, and worth every bloomin' penny.
So giddy he couldn't sit still--a blur of joy and excitement for an hour and a half.
Thursday, June 13, 2013
My niece travels to Atlanta to spend the summer with her dad tomorrow. We made the most of our ten days together, but her light shines brightly and she'll be deeply missed. She sat at the computer and searched back a few months on this blog looking for something that looked like fun, landing on the shadow box puppet theater the boys and I made back in February.
So, this is what we made today.
Wednesday, June 12, 2013
The boys and I made stained-glass heart valentines to send around to loved ones this past February. My mom has hers still stuck to her kitchen window, and today I saw that my sister Kate has her displayed in her bathroom. We sent one to Grandaddy in the hospital a month before he passed away. I wanted to ask someone who visited him in if it was there, but the question didn't seem quite right. But I'd like to think that he got it, and knew we were thinking of him with love.
The kids and I caught a mid-day performance of the Wizard of Oz at the marionette puppet theater. It was a little disappointing; all the sound was pre-recorded, and they were short one puppeteer, making for some awkward transitions, especially when the script called for more than three puppets on the stage at once. The kids noticed, and afterward described the show as "OK." I wish I would have been a bit more fair-minded about it. I could have offered some possible explanations for the lackluster parts and focused on the aspects that were good. As it was, I joined them in an "Eh" review.
The Spiderwick fairy field guide is turning out to be way fun. My niece and I especially are having a great time with it. Today, we made proper notebooks in which to record our observations of fantastical creatures in the (usually) Invisible World.
My friend Sharon showed me several years ago how to make a simple book using a running stitch through cover and paper as a binding, so we applied it here with slightly different materials. Nana has LOTS of cool stuff with which to be creative. We found a selection of awls, a sizable stash of leather scraps, and enough sewing supplies to quilt, cover, and clothe a small village.
We were both very pleased with the results. Aila's is the dark teal-covered book in the front. Her first entry was, "Fairies love bread. They eat it almost every time, if they are real, that is."
And, today, Daddy Honey brought our 13-year-old Doberman in to be put down. I don't have much more to say about that right now, though in the next few weeks I may.
Tuesday, June 11, 2013
A cousin outing to Rock Springs at Kelly Park, Orange County, Fla.
Cousin Canyon is pretty heavy into rave culture and new and retro House music. When we dropped him back off at home after the springs, he brought out some of his dance club stuff to show the kids. Two favorites were his LED dance gloves and his diffraction glasses, pictured here. They break all light into rainbows.
Snowmen from a Nana-special boardgame became zombies seeking to steal each other's body parts. Between these and Nana's pincushions, Fox's entertainment needs are fully met 90% of the time.
Having finished and loved the first book in the Spiderwick Series (also our first audio book), I ordered from Amazon a used copy of Arthur Spiderwick's Field Guide to the Fantastical World Around You, the one referred to in the story itself. It was very, very popular with Woody and Aila. We spent the rest of the afternoon attempting to lure Brownies out from hiding and protect ourselves from pixie mischief. The bag above is filled with salt and tied with red string. (If you read the Field Guide, you'll know why.) Below, the kids are sitting in Nana's sewing room, the likeliest place for a fairy to hide, they thought. A doozy of an afternoon thunderstorm added significantly to the mood, and the wee cup of milk was frequently scrutinized for signs of imbibing. Belief and reason were brought up a few times, and left in indecision for another day.
Snails outside after the rain.
First cousins are ample in the Honey boys' family, grown-up, older, same aged, younger, and baby. I always remember all their names and the families they go to, but I sometimes forget their ages. Here's my best guess:
Katherine -- 22
Meagan -- 20
Maddie -- 16
Jordan -- 19
Caleb -- 17
Canyon -- 15
Patrick -- 16
Hannah -- 16
Lizzie -- 14
Lizzie -- 14
Margaret -- 13
David -- 11
Karol -- 9
Aila -- 8
Isabel -- 7
Nayfi -- 5
Michael -- 3
Ava -- 3
Gilbert -- 1 1/2
Emma -- 1 1/2
Junia -- 10 months
Happy parts of yesterday were spent chasing that last little one around the house:
The baby, Juni, and my niece Aila are sisters. Aila remembers when Fox was a baby. She remembers some of the diapers that her sister now wears when they were Fox's. Fox is learning to give the baby some space to crawl and reach and grab and scoot. (He keeps wanting to set up barriers for her--of toys, pillows, baskets, etc.) And, he thinks she is the cutest baby ever and tells me so every ten minutes when he's around her. Woody likes how she squeezes her eyes shut and shows her teeth when she smiles, and then looks up to make sure you saw her and are smiling back at her. We all think it's funny how she sometimes loses her balance and tips backwards, but how she has a kind of technique for falling that involves rolling on her bum and back, then righting herself once the topple is complete.
It's no small thing to be comfortable, at ease, and delighted around babies.
Monday, June 10, 2013
Saturday, June 8, 2013
We made a spontaneous decision to come down to Florida a bit ahead of schedule, and impulsively I decided to drive the whole way in one 17-hour go. I'm still not caught up on my sleep, but the boys have seen all of their cousins at least once, and gotten lots of good Nana's-house fun in for the past four days.
Fox hasn't yet braved the pool. Every year, it seems as if he begins the swimming season a little more timid than where we left off the fall before. But we have time for him to find his happy place again. Here, he is practicing milking a cow using a pool-water saturated basketball hoop as an udder as Woody and Aila play Marco Polo behind him. And you thought I was joking about this kid being ready to buy the farm...
My Whirly Girl niece is growing up. They're all growing up. I consider myself pretty darn good at slowing down and really living in the moments, and yet, I'm still surprised and sometimes saddened at how fast they pass.